It worked, I used neverdull last night and it did not take as much elbow grease as I was anticipating, I worked on both sides, headers and exhaust down to my mufflers, took me about 2 hours, but I need to put another coat today with some buffing and finish the exhaust, it does take the oil off with some effort.
I took a couple of before and after pics, I can not get them to load right now, but here's my photobucket link with the oily headers.
http://s118.photobucket.com/albums/o113/dacocr250/
thx for all the advice guys.